HONESTY AND LIES: Traps of Online dating
“Il ne faut jamais croire aux belles paroles, mieux vaut croire aux belles preuves.” French Proverb We must never believe in beautiful words, better…
For Women
He's Giving Me Mixed Signals
Hi Lucia, We lived together and I moved out in April after I asked him to partake in counseling. He said yes, and then he said no and that he didn’t…
Is This A Fake Break Up?
Hi Lucia, Should I be in a no contact with my ex if I'm the one who hung up on him during an argument and did not call him for three days? When i did…
My Ex Went Back To His Ex
Hi Lucia, I started dating a guy who was in a 10 year relationship. They had serious issues; they didn’t enjoy doing the same things, there was a…
I'm Dating A Commitment Phobe
Dear Lucia,I truly love a man that I’ve been involved with on and off for six years. I’m 34 and he’s 40. We once lived together for a year until I…
I'm Dating A Married Man
Hi Lucia, I'm 24 and have been going with a 36 year old married man for several years. When we first went out he didn't tell me he was married and…
My Fiance Is Cheating
Hi Lucia, I am engaged to a guy that I have been involved with for six years. I broke it off with him in August because he cheated on me. Three…
For Men
12 Reasons Women Can’t Stand Nice Guys
Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why: Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice…
Is She Breadcrumbing Me?
Hi Lucia, I was recently involved with a lady who stated she wasn’t looking for a commitment. She apparently came out of a bad relationship and…
I Went On Vacation With My Ex
Hi Lucia, I'm going into week 7 of no contact and nothing. Every day I think I’m getting better but then start to think it’s another day of her…
Should I Date A Recent Divorcée?
Hi Lucia, I went out with a coworker a couple of times, but then a new person started working in a different department and she started dating him.…
She Doesn't Want To Be Exclusive
Hi Lucia I was dating a girl over a period of 5 months and went on 7 dates in total. However, it got to the 7th date and I brought up the…
Sexual Double Standard
Hi Lucia, I'm always confused as to why women have two totally contradictory standards for having sex with a man. Most women (when they meet your…
Can We Love Two People At The Same Time?
Hi Lucia, I'm a 21 year old gay man. My boyfriend told me just a few days ago that he was bisexual and that he had a girlfriend. When he told me that…