Hi Lucia,

I've heard very attractive women sometimes complain it is difficult for them to meet decent guys. They claim that losers hit on them relentlessly, but other guys either assume they are taken or are intimidated by them. Is this true? Frankly, I think these women are looking for Mr. Perfect and write off everyone else as losers.

Lou

 

Hi Lou,

It sounds like an attractive woman has rejected you. Attractive women are constantly being hit on. They get attention everywhere they go. Everyone wants to meet them and talk to them. It's like being famous, but without the fame. Since they have so many options, they can afford to be pickier than most people. This can be both a blessing (able to pick from the cream of the crop) and a curse (always think the grass is greener on the other side).