I consulted a psychiatrist on an issue I had already asked you about. The PhD gave me the same advice!
L. Davis
Your writing is very open and that's a very sexy quality.
Shane
Thanks for your definition of "class" in this week's Campus Circle -- and for encouraging more people to acquire it!
Dee Long
Your photo looks alluring and wise, which is how a love guru should look.
J.C.
Preach on sister!
Rhett
I love your shows. You are a smart chick.
The Chazman
Thanks so much for your help! It may be the best advice I've had in a long time!
Roland
Wow that is a different spin that I haven't heard before. Thank you soooooo much.
JT
None more true words have been spoken.
Tifffany
Your answers are first class.
Pasqual B.
Lucia, you are truly an expert! Amen to that!
Earl Stevens
Out of all the advice that I’ve heard today, you made me feel a lot better. I’m out of my slump now.
K.W.
You were funny, beautiful and sexy on The Tyra Banks Show.
Dina
Wow. That is so to the point that it hurts.
Anonymous
Thank God we have someone like you to shed light on such an awkward topic for most.
Jordn
The points covered like the massage are so true and you don't hear anyone talking about those little details in a relationship.
Nils
“Fear and love cannot co-exist.”Very impressive. Thank you for this. Beautifully put, Lucia.
Anonymous
You are way schooled in the art of love.
The Chazman
You don’t know how much having your perspective is appreciated.
Lina
Bless you in your wisdom. Your advice is precious to me and I hear what I am really supposed to hear from it.
Tammy
Boy, this is SOOOOOO TRUUUUUEEEEE???
Marna
Good stuff Lucia.....seriously. You are right on target.
Mike U.
I just saw your show and it blew my hair back!
James E.
Amazing advice. You're so smart.
Ula
Lucia you were wonderful on Tyra's show! You are my idol.
Tammy
Your response hit it right on the head (as usual).
Roland
You are amazing and I have total respect for the work you do. .
Lynne
You give insight that I've never read before in relationship articles. 
A. Vann
Keep doing what you're doing. You're a positive advocate for women who wish to be the same.

Stephen

I'm glad to see you won't be closing the door on Mr. Right's left foot anytime soon!

M.S.
Have you been reading my diary? This sounds like the last 7 years of my life.
Epiphany
Listen to her, she knows....she knows.
Tyra Banks
This is the first time I've read dating advice from a woman that really understands men. Maybe that's why you're still single! LOL
Joe C
I love the book! I read it last night and couldn't put it down. It's full of common sense answers and an easy read. You're funny and have a no B.S. style.
The Professor
Thank you Lucia for giving the best dating advice that has been missing from today's world.
Marnice
I wish I could give you a bear hug. By reading your advice columns, going through your recommended reading and following your advice – I am a very happy woman today.
Cobie
Your advice made me feel much better. Thank you for helping people. You really do make an impact and your words are very wise.
Fabiola
Thanks for explaining something (why women date jerks) that has been making me crazy for years.  This wasn't even dissected this well in psych class! 
Eclectic Enigma
 
It was like a gift from God having read all your articles.   Thank you so much for helping relationships like this. I feel so confident. 
Heidi
You are a very personable host.   I would love to see you get the opportunity to host a much grander show.  I truly believe your popularity would skyrocket!!
M. Hilton
Your column really helped me out today. I realized that I should relax, go with the flow and things will work themselves out.
Nichelle
Thanks, Lucia.  You really helped me out.  I agree with EVERYTHING.  I wish I had been more careful, but I will bounce back and am trying to just look forward now. 
L.S.
You're absolutely right, I will take your great advice.  Your answer now that you have said it seems so simple, why couldn’t I figure this out!  I love your column and your to the point, no-nonsense advice.  You’re the best! 
Lani
Thanks for the advice... Next time I meet a great guy I'm going to enter it with grace and style!
Jessica
You're right about everything…I haven't spoken to the schmuck again since the hang-up.
Jamie
I can honestly say that I am so happy with him now. I backed off like you said to, and things are great! Keep up the good work!
Stephani
For a while (based on my bad experiences), I found women to be negative. Seeing what your passion is, is changing my views to more positive ones. I hope one day, I'll meet you."
 
F.L.O.S.S
I read your yellow/orange flag piece and was astonished with the insight!
Mick
I was just looking through this campus newsweekly and the "Casual Sex" topic caught my attention. I must applaud you, you give good advice.  Quite honestly, I wasn't expecting it. Based on your pic, you're kinda cute and normally, cute girls are generally stupid and most of their opinions are very one sided or clearly not thought out. The way you responded to the girl about getting feelings for her booty call was totally excellent. Keep up the good work.
The Chazman
That's so funny, this has been my test of a good lover for years (kissing). I've told a million friends about it too, most of whom didn't believe me. Nice to have some confirmation finally.
Scott
I just read your definition of, “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” That statement helped me come to terms with what I recently went through. I guess I knew what it meant but I just needed to hear if from someone like yourself. Thanks for your contribution and I wish you the best.
Tim
I was flipping through a weekly newspaper and I see this very attractive blonde, very smart looking, and I went oh my God it's Lucia. Your look is so perfect for what you are doing, because you are very attractive, yet you are smart, and you're someone people want to look at and then when they hear what you have to say it's a complete package. You go Girl!
Dina M.
I wanted to say thanks for the article on “Peace of Mind”. That was one of the best articles written on the relationship topic I've ever read. You could not have hit so many great points in such a short piece. Showed the article to a couple friends who could not agree more!
Ed G.
You’re real, funny and enjoyable to watch. You keep my attention with what you have to say and you look great too.
Dina M.
Just read you article "Being alone" in CC. Thank you – it’s just what I needed to read
Steve
I would like to thank you for your harsh but true words. It was a huge slap in the face… it made me face reality.
Heartbroken
I really feel what you are saying. The art analogy is great and makes perfect sense! I've never looked at it that way. You've confirmed my outlook on dating in general. Thanx!!
Oni
I really hope u do get a national T.V. show... u seem very passionate about what you do (which means you don’t give a lot of bullshit advice like a lot of other so called “experts”)…I may be young, but wish I had someone like you to walk me through my relationship screw ups a lot of people could use advice from people like u keep on kicking ass doing what you do… just wanted to let u know you’ve got a fan for life…and when you do get your national TV show I will definitely watch it.
Courtney
I thoroughly enjoyed your articles. The more I read, the more endearing I thought you were.
Beth
Do you have a team of writers? You always give the perfect answer.
Dina.
Do I love you or what my friend, Lucia? How many times you saved me from this kind of a situation! NEVER AGAIN! Been through enough drama to know I no longer wish to go there!
Agi
You bless me always with your eloquent advice. I would love to read your column in the LA-Times or a nation wide newspaper for the people to discover your qualities and intellect. Indeed you are special.
Frank C.
I like your articles.  They resemble the advice my father gave me. He and my mother have been married for 38 years. He told me that if he had to date in contemporary times, he would not discuss any serious relationship matters for the six first months. Courtship, in his opinion, should be fun and nothing else.  If you have conflict while you are having fun, you sure as hell will not have fun in a quarrel.
Eric
WOW! This is a very cool and sexy thing you have going! Good advice, you really know how to read people (especially men!). I found it a very intuitive and entertaining read!
P.A. Booth
I strongly encourage you to continue doing what you are doing. Your show brings tons of excitement and we all enjoy listening to you.
Andre
Your down to earth, straight forward, fun and honest words intrigued me further! Intelligence, talent and beauty- what a combination!
Wyatt
I like what I've seen of your show; for some reason it reminds me of my Sociology Professor. He told us that we should date at least 100 people before we get married.
Marco
Thank you for being straightforward and honest with me. You are so right. Thank goodness for women like you.
Melanie
You are one of very few columnists that I look forward to hearing, reading and feeling what you acknowledge about human relationships.
Thomas
I LOVE the way you teach women to like and respect themselves when it comes to dealing with men -- no games and no bullshit - and that's very challenging these days
Dee
Your articles are interesting and intelligent.  You are the Los Angeles version of Carrie Bradshaw. .
RK
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